Sex Love and Dating
In these times it is both fun and beneficial to have a safe way to connect. This is a place for adults to have a forum to not only get and give advice, but share experiences and explore new ideas.
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Love and Sex
What’s love got to do with it? What’s sex got to do with it? Age old question and many different answers. When you meet someone new and it can’t be love yet, do you have sex anyway? Maybe you should wait until you really feel you know the person better. It is sometimes easy to confuse sexual attraction with love. I think it is important to know what it is you are looking for and what you need.
First Dates and Red Flags
While there are always exceptions, there are some basic red flags on a first date. Do NOT ignore them. In general the person is on their very best behavior when the relationship is new. So it is usually down hill from there.
If your date is late. More than 15 minutes and no phone call? Hmmmmm
How does your date treat the staff at the restaurant? Demanding, rude, leave a crummy tip when the service was fine? Is it all about them or are they asking questions about you?
We all have that little voice of reason within us. Listen to it. Especially on the first date.
Sex When You Are Well Over 50 Years Old
Now that I am WELL over 50 years old…Lordy!!! I have mixed feelings about the use or over use of products for erectile dysfunction. I haven’t spend a great deal of time thinking about sex at my age.
There was a time after menopause, that meeting someone new did not bring with it sexual issues. No worries about safe sex etc. Now I meet men age 78 and older that have sexual partners and are seeking additional sex partners. The gentlemen I have met do not practice safe sex. They tell me that in their day, the worst thing you could contract was taken care of with antibiotics.
I do have BOB ( battery operated boyfriend ) and he’s not jealous….Just a whole new world for those of us entering the dating world later in life.
